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Ladies! Does your man possess a wandering eye, constantly complains of being bored, complains about every lady he sees? Let the dude out of the door, he is a womaniser
Women are so blinded by love so much that they tend to ignore potential red flags in their relationship, particularly if he is a womaniser. This may be, because men have become professionals in hiding their acts. However, every woman can spot a chronic player 10 miles away, if she pays little attention.
There are however, certain signs that can tell you what kind of man you are dating. These key signals will save you the drama of getting into an unhealthy and toxic relationship.
He makes too many excuses:
Chronic players always have an excuse already prepared for their actions. If he stood you up for dinner or did not return your calls, a womaniser would always have a thousand flimsy excuses for his action.
He easily gets bored:
Players tend to have some sort of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, when it comes to relating with women. You can usually identify a womaniser by the way he seems interested one minute, and he loses interest the next minute.
He never keeps to his promises:
If he always tells you that he will be available, or will do something special for you, but you find him changing his mind at the last minute, chances are that he does not really feel anything for you, but he is only out to count you as part of his conquests.
He has wandering eyes:
Any man that always has his eyes wandering no matter how beautiful, interesting and successful you are, is probably the type that wants to be with more than one woman. Kick him out today.
He has nothing nice to say about other ladies:
Womanisers are generally very smart and deceiving. They tend to pretend not to care about other ladies when you are out together. If he simply has nothing nice to say about other ladies, and yet he can not help noticing them, then you have a red flag right there. If he has nothing nice to say about someone else, he certainly would not have something nice to say about you in your absence.
He has a bad reputation:
The first red flag of a womaniser is that almost everyone knows about his reputation except you. It may be that he constantly laughs it off, when his friends call him ‘baddo’ during a funny conversation, or you heard some rumours through an authoritative source that you simply passed off as jealousy inspired. The truth however, is that there is no smoke without fire. You should take a deep look at things, so you do not fall into the wrong hands
He has a lot of exes:
When you ask him of his past, he reels out a long list of people he has dated. Not only are they his number of conquests, but also an indication that he is a womaniser. The reason that he counts them and remembers them all, also points to this fact. A serious gentleman would not have time to count and relay the news of all his conquests.
He uses so many pet names:
Any man that chases a lot of women, will always use pet names to stop himself from being caught. He can easily get away with calling you and the long list of women he has as, “baby” or “honey”, than if he calls you by your name. By doing this, he does not want you to hear him call another person’s name, so be very wise.